August 15, 2016 - Equality in Wilkes Barre means LGBT Rights

Equality in Wilkes Barre means LGBT Rights!

Mondays suck... I get it. But hopefully this video will make your Monday suck less. And speaking of things that suck, not having any rights definitely counts as something that sucks!

Did you know that you can be fired, evicted from your home or denied service and public accommodations just for being gay? It's 100% true, and 100% legal in the city of Wilkes Barre, Pennsylvania. And don't even get me started on the kind of stuff you have to deal with as a trans person... ugh...

I've been working on a project I've dubbed Equality Wilkes Barre; it's an initiative taken up by myself, Wilkes Barre City Councilman Tony Brooks and Councilwoman Beth Gilbert to pass an anti-discrimination bill in the city of Wilkes Barre. If this project is successful, it'll mean LGBT rights and protections from discrimination. It'll mean no more living in fear of bigoted, prejudiced employers and landlords. It'll mean common decency and respect for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people -- among many others. Isn't that something worth fighting for?

Well, it is. And Thursday evening, with about a dozen friends and allies, we took to the Wilkes Barre City Hall to sit in on the meeting where Beth Gilbert was going to be opening her proposition for this ordinance to public discussion. Her proposal is to amend a current ordinance, entitled Human Relations, to include protections for the LGBT community which would help us out if we ever find ourselves discriminated against.

The good news is, they accepted the proposal. It was a unanimous decision -- 5 out of 5 councilpersons. The bad news is, all they did was accept the PROPOSAL. It'll be another month until they vote on actually writing it into law. Even so, I'm optimistic.

Meanwhile, I'm getting called out in the comments section of the city paper's because I was mentioned by name for my involvement in this. Imagine, just for having the audacity to ask for a little bit of fair treatment, I raised a small ruckus. Ugh...

Well, that's what I do. I raise ruckuses.

As usual, the people complaining aren't seeing the bigger picture. This is not a request for "special treatment." All we want is to have the same protections as everyone else. It's not an extra special LGBT rights law, created just for us... All we're doing is making sure that if you can't be fired, evicted or thrown out of a business for being straight and cisgender, we shouldn't be subject to the abuse for being gay and/or trans. It's only fair. This is how we equalize things. That's not how they see it, of course, but whatever. This is a good thing, whether they realize it or not. The civil rights movement is alive and well. Equality in Wilkes Barre!

Now, if you'd like to the read the full story, I'll be posting a link to my article in NEPAScene.com.

Anyway, that's all for this week. More guitar vids are on their way, I promise. Keep on keepin' on!

August 8th, 2016 - NEPA PrideFest at Montage Mountain - Pride on the Mountain

NEPA PrideFest at Montage Mountain - Pride on the Mountain

This week, I'm in Kirby Park in Wilkes Barre, again! I liked it so much last time that I decided to do it, again.

I talk a little about NEPA PrideFest at Montage Mountain, where it was held this year.

Everything was set for this years Pride to be better than ever... especially after last year. Last year, Pride was in Pittston on one of the hottest days of the summer. Previously, it was held in Kirby Park in Wilkes Barre. The greenery and proximity to the Susquehanna River always made it feel comfortable and open. But last year, it was held on blacktop -- I actually felt like I was being cooked from both the sun and the ground. It was pretty intense. I was dehydrated, I got bad leg cramps, we were just sweating and melting and... ugh. So, when I'd heard that Pride was going to be at a water park, I couldn't wait! Everything was perfect... except for the weather.

I don't recall exactly what the temperature was for most of the day, but it wasn't the kind of temperature I wanted to go swimming in. Regardless, we had a lovely time. My girlfriend and I spent the day talking to our friends, listening to bands performing and even riding the zip line! What a great venue! I think NEPA PrideFest at Montage Mountain was a huge success.

I also talk about my girlfriend and I getting our eyebrows done. You can see them, in the video. What do you think? My girlfriend has a good friend who does them, and she nailed it. Perfect!

I talk about 1940s Weekend in Eckley Miner's Village, which I've been going to for at least 3 years. Maybe even 4? I can't remember, anymore... I just know that I love big band era music, swing dancing and dressing like a pin-up model. It was perfect. This year was a little different, though. My girlfriend and I got harassed by, of course, a cisgender male for using the ladies room. Yeah, for real.

Finally, I talk about rewatching The Matrix from the perspective of a trans woman and noting that the Wachowskis are also trans, and I talk a little about transitioning in my 30s and some of the things I sacrificed because I stayed in the closet and didn't begin hormone therapy sooner. It's difficult for me to talk about, but I try.

Anyway, enjoy the video! See you next time...

August 4, 2016 - Kirby Park in Wilkes Barre!

Coming to you from Kirby Park in Wilkes Barre

They're doing work on my building... and that means noise. Lots of noise. I decided, since it's such a nice day, and I need to get out of the apartment, why not set up shop in Kirby Park in Wilkes Barre? Brilliant!

In this week's vlog post I talk about my latest article for NEPA Scene, featuring Sarah McBride, the first transgender woman to speak at the Democratic National Convention. Or, well, any major political convention. It's kind of a big deal.

As mentioned in the video, I had some basic knowledge of who Sarah McBride was, based on what I'd read about her, but it still didn't dawn on me just who she was and how important she was to history and to the transgender community. We have certainly come a long way! And yet, we still have so far to go. It seems like the more progress we make, the more we get pushed back.

Also mentioned in the video is my latest "guitar noodle" video, "Chasing Comets," which was NOT filmed at Kirby Park. Alas, that's just how things go. They weren't working on my building when I recorded that one, so there was no need to head out for a quieter space. I'm definitely looking forward to making more of these. I'm also thinking of getting into other creative outlets, such as painting. It just depends on my level of motivation and whether I can manage to create something I like enough to share. It's been so long since I painted! Like, 10 years, or so. Until I decide otherwise, enjoy the guitar videos.

I also really need to get back into experimental electronic music. There's a lot of setup that goes into it, and to be honest, it's just so much faster and easier to grab a guitar and string a few chords together. And I can't exactly bring my entire setup to Kirby Park; although, I suppose I could just play around with Ableton Live, some headphones and a keyboard controller.

Anyway, enjoy the videos, let me know what you think. If you have any comments or questions, put them in the usual place and I'll get back to you. This is Dee, signing off from Kirby Park in Wilkes Barre. Take it easy!